We have free and accessible birth control.
We have sex ed in public AND private schools.
Regarding the hand up. If there are no consequences for the parents because of the irresponsibility (including not using available birth control methods) one reaches one of two conclusions;
a. it "happened" on purpose (surveys show that many, if not most, girls who get pregnant do so by choice, not by "accident." or
b.The minority, the 1-2% who are pregnant by way of incest or rape ARE entitled to society's protection, but they must cooperate. Many refuse to name potential father(s), even when the pregnancy is voluntary, knowing that the system will provide support.
While innocent children are not responsible for the irresponsibile decisions of their procreators, we make a mistake by not asking/requiring the community-the geograpjhic, political and religious "commmunity" to take leadership not only in caring for children, but in counseling prevention in the first place. Americans are by far the largest charitable givers in the world, but charity without compassion, which includes the willing participation in community moral structure and yes, opprobrium when necessary, is doomed to failure. There will NEVER be enough resources to take care of ever-growing populations of poor and minority children, absent making more important resouces available for most through population planning which divides the pool among less each year, making more available for all.
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